Tarisha Tourok relationship counselling Auckland – success story I have a beautiful relationship with my husband – he is my best friend, my lover, my world, however, I was feeling out of sorts, that I was not giving him enough. I actually couldn’t put my finger on it – I adore him! Isn’t that enough? Not for me! It was bugging me! At first I was dubious, if I would benefit from Tarisha’s work. Through the course of the workshop my thinking changed – my understanding became clearer. As it turned out my learning curve was going to be huge! I realised it was not what more I could give my husband it was actually all about ME! It was … Read More
Restoring Love with the Scaffold of Secure Functioning
Loving and supportive relationships give us as a strong foundation. To become wildly successful we need support! However, what I notice quite often is that we stay in a state of fight or flight with our partners. Somehow, our partners know exactly how to step on our most painful places. Has this been your experience? It doesn’t have to be this way! Read this article to find out more on how relationship therapy can help here.
Use your man to have delicious ecstatic sex
Love is all about sharing, giving from an overflow. Love is not about trying to make our man to give us what we missed on in our childhood and what we are missing now. The simple truth here is, we are fully capable of giving ourselves what we need. It’s a marvellous thing to use your partner to share your joy and love of life. To be partners in the adventure of life. To do mischief together. To celebrate your beauty. To celebrate his beauty. To have delicious ecstatic sex. Use him for this! Please, please don’t use him to make you feel better when you feel crap. Don’t use him for security and as a wall between you … Read More
Do you have relationship problems? Maybe you are making these relationship mistakes…
Do you argue with your partner? Or maybe you feel unsupported and disconnected? A happy and loving relationship requires you to avoid a few key mistakes. And a loving relationship with lots of support is why you’re here, right? Let’s take a closer look at the 3 key mistakes and what to do instead: Mistake #1 – Jumping at blaming your partner for what doesn’t work We see that things are not happening as we want them to and we start feeling victimised by what our partner does. We blame him for not getting what we want. We might even start thinking that we need to change our partner. We think, my needs are not being fulfilled therefore I’m … Read More
How to sustain passion in a committed relationship
Why do we lose passion in long-term relationships? How can we restore the intensity of feelings that we had in the beginning of our relationships? Yes, we need to learn a way of communication that inspires love and also we need to bring more feminine/masculine polarity into the relationship. Want to learn the communication formula that will give you all the love and affection that you need? Join us for a 3-hour workshop in Auckland “Fire Up Your Connection and Fall Deeply in Love Again”. There are women who are more masculine at their core, and there are men who are more feminine, naturally, at their core. However, most men are more masculine, and most women are more feminine. Frequently … Read More
The most essential tip to have more intimacy
Hi Beautiful, You can only change your relationship if you take full responsibility for it. I hear so often that women start to blame their partner, he’s that and he does that and doesn’t do this. How often do you blame your partner? I know it happens to me, even knowing all this stuff I still need to be very aware and take full responsibility for my actions and my contribution to the relationship. The truth is, if we blame, we can’t really change anything. We go into a victim mode and loose all power. To start changing things the first step is to take full responsibility for what’s happening in the present moment. What is it that you … Read More
Secrets that men will never tell you but you need to know to relax in love
Discover these differences between men and women to create a passionate marriage and long-lasting love. Do you ever wonder why your man is ignoring you, why he looks at other women and how to get his attention? Watch this video! Secrets that men would never tell you… But! You need to know to create a magical intimate relationship. Secret number 1 – he wants to make you happy Somehow, when they make us happy, they feel much happier if they just did something for themselves. Their intent is always good; it’s their lack of knowledge that hurts us and makes us feel unloved. What makes you feel loved? Share this with your man! I promise, he’d be thrilled to make … Read More
The 7 Habits of Smart Magnetic Women. How to Be Happy In Your Relationship & Mesmerize Your Man.
By harnessing the power of habit you can enjoy the life and relationship you really want. Here are the seven habits of smart magnetic women that will keep you feeling nurtured and vibrant with lots of love in your heart. Are these habits part of your daily life? Which ones do you need to adopt to create the life that delights you? There is simply no way to create a deep intimate connection with your partner, if you don’t prioritise your self-care. If you don’t have a habit of putting yourself first on your to-do list, then you probably feel resentful and depleted, or blame your partner for not giving you what you need. This energy is not magnetic! And … Read More
Feel bored?
Whenever you feel bored with life or your partner, it means you are not really living; you are pushing some of your feelings away and live mechanically.
A simple secret to re-ignite passion
Hello Beautiful! Why is it that you feel unsatisfied and bored in your relationship? Where is that passion and excitement you had when you were just dating? We live in a masculine world, where actions and achievements are most valued. We are forgetting our fluid feminine nature and act as if we were men. We set goals, work hard and always move forward without being actually connected to our inner soft womanly part, quite often we don’t even know what we are feeling inside. We achieve success at a price of our happiness. We loose ourselves in actions and achievements starting to feel empty, dissatisfied and stuck. But men yearn to melt, to experience the feelings world through us. Men … Read More