Simply adjusting our behaviour can be superficial, manipulative, and hard to sustain. Some books on relationships tell you, for example, not to criticise your man and to appreciate him. How on earth are we supposed to do that if we feel that he doesn’t care, and he behaves in ways that hurt us? We need to first understand why our partner is doing what he is doing and find a way to step into a state of love and appreciation. Only then can we authentically appreciate him.
I Felt Bored and Stuck. Now Our Relationship is Better Than 29 Years Ago.
Jo and Richard have been married for twenty-nine years. They have two grown children. Here is their story, as told by Jo, my client. Our first session I don’t know what’s happening. I feel bored and stuck. We love each other; I know we love each other. And we feel comfortable with each other. But what is this longing? As if I’m missing something. You know, sex became so mechanical. I know exactly what’s going to happen. It’s booooring! How did we come to this place? I feel like I don’t want to continue like this anymore. I want to feel excitement, passion. I want to enjoy making love with my husband. But it feels like that’s it. We had … Read More
What Tarisha is Up To in March 2013
Re-branding my business to Deeply in Love Again – where women who don’t settle for less create magical intimate relationships; Variety of private clients – by making a decision to work with me, one of my clients has started the transformation in her life and even by our 3rdsession, she created a new possibility of love for herself! My book is in the final stages of the publishing process! Only couple of weeks left, I’m thrilled. Watch the space ‘How to Make Him Fall in Love with You All Over Again: 7 Weeks to More Intimacy and Delicious Sex in Your Relationship’
Do You Know What Drives Your Man? An Essential Secret for You
Hello Gorgeous! Men love seeing their woman happy. And they love to be the reason for her happiness. When they make us happy, they feel much happier if they just did something for themselves. Just know their intent is always good; it’s their lack of knowledge that hurts us and makes us feel unloved. It is hard for men to admit that they have no idea about something or that they don’t know how to resolve a problem. In other words, your partner might never ask you what you need in order to feel happy. He might try different things that won’t work for you and in turn, he may feel inadequate for not being able to make you happy. He’ll … Read More
Appreciate Your Partner!
Start to appreciate the small things your partner does for you – you will get more of them .
Are You Playing Hard to Get and Destroy Your Relationship?
We’ve all heard of playing hard to get, but in reality, withdrawing your love and attention will only end up killing trust and intimacy. Instead of allowing your partner’s lack of attentiveness to ruin your self-esteem, breathe deeply and remember what a beautiful, lovable woman you are! Make an effort to feel good about yourself, and your confident vibe will soon have a positive effect on your partner. If you have been letting your partner’s mood affect yours, then you are allowing him too much control over your life. Think about other aspects of your life that make you happy and share your happiness with your partner. Remember, you can still act lovingly and affectionately to him without demanding his … Read More
Are You Mistakenly Pushing Your Man Away?
Beautiful, this is a classic mistake made by many. Without thinking, you automatically adjust the way you act to make yourself more accommodating to your man. You may stop doing the things you love, such as wearing a certain type of clothing, or you may stop seeing your friends as much. Gorgeous, you may think that changing who you are will have a positive effect on your relationship. Maybe you used to love nothing more than spending a Saturday afternoon shopping with your friends, and then all of a sudden you find you have become a latch-on to your soccer supporting other half! If this is you, you have been getting it all wrong! But don’t panic; I will soon … Read More
Are You Making This Love-Sucking Mistake?
Hi Beautiful Women tend to be more invested in the relationships and unfortunately, Gorgeous, this can sometimes have a negative impact on our romantic life. When in a partnership, you may make the mistake of trying to figure out what your other half is thinking; and trying to figure out how to improve the relationship. You may even go the lengths of making plans, assuming that it will help their relationship. Remember Darling, that you are not a mind reader and that the male brain works in completely different ways to that of a female. Instead of falling into the trap of becoming a ‘thought investigator’, why not just relax and try to enjoy the relationship that you’re in? Talk … Read More
Why Does Your Man Look at Other Women?? And What to Do About It.
Have you noticed how your partner sometimes looks at other women? Does it drive you nuts? Do you sometimes lose your self-confidence and feel there is something wrong with you: that you are not enough, not beautiful enough, not sexy enough? Do you blame him that he doesn’t love you enough? The truth is – all men look at other women. All men sometimes fantasize about having sex with other women. All men sometimes undress a woman with their eyes. Men think about sex a lot. It is their biological nature. Think about priests who decided to be celibate and remove sex from their lives. Think of all the sexual abuse it has caused. This proves that, however determined men … Read More