I never saw a half-hearted bird Or a mediocre mountain And every star in heaven Has given its all It’s only me that’s holding back Suni
Do you have a clear intention for your relationship?
We need to let the universe know what we desire to create in our lives. Once we see the image of where we want to be and are able to articulate it, the universe has a chance to help us align our life with our vision. Once we know where we want to go, that vision draws us forward, and we see the reason for changing our habits. Our vision inspires us and keeps us moving forward, especially when our path seems littered with obstacles and progress feels slow.
When We Were Young, We Didn’t Have This Amount of Intimacy
Hi Beautiful Here is an inspiring story of one of my clients to let you know what is possible for you if you are ready to handle more love and deeper intimacy in your life. Jo and Richard have been married for twenty-nine years. They have two grown children. Here is their story, as told by Jo, my client. Our first session I don’t know what’s happening. I feel bored and stuck. We love each other; I know we love each other. And we feel comfortable with each other. But what is this longing? As if I’m missing something. You know, sex became so mechanical. I know exactly what’s going to happen. It’s booooring! How did we come to this … Read More
It is hard for men to admit that they have no idea about something or that they don’t know how to resolve a problem. So your partner might never ask you what you need to feel happy. He might try different things that won’t work for you. He’ll just feel inadequate for not being able to make you happy. He’ll suffer silently. So it is up to you — in a gentle manner — to share with him what would make you happy. I highlight, in a soft feminine manner, as a request and not a demand. Now think what needs to happen so that you feel loved. Share this with your man! He’d be thrilled to make you feel … Read More
Do you feel the urge to follow your man?
When you feel the urge to follow your man, to plan your weekend together or talk to him too much, breathe deeply, ask yourself “What am I feeling? What is happening with me right now?” Turn toward yourself and stay with yourself: What is moving in you, what wants to be expressed? Instead of following your man, you follow yourself. This will create some space between the two of you and a space for him to step into. It’s a much better idea for you to stay open to your man but don’t extend yourself to him. Leave space for him to come to you, to chase you. Learn more secrets to revive love in your relationship at my virtual … Read More
Are you over-functioning in your relationship?
Are you over-functioning in your relationship? Are you always the one trying to connect and be close to your man? There is a distinction of leaning in and leaning out. If you always lean in, he doesn’t have a choice but to lean out. There is no space for him to step into. And it kills his desire for you. There is no excitement for him anymore — you are always there in his face. There is nothing to achieve, no sense of being successful. What to do instead? To find the answer, register for my free virtual bootcamp here www.deeplyinloveagain.com/teleseminar
I love Love. I admire Men. I am a Woman.
“I love love. I admire men. I am a woman. Love is so precious. Oh, the feeling of being completely in love. That sparkle in the eyes, the way that everything makes sense, the fact that there is purpose to everything…The sun shines so much brighter, and even the rain is romantic.” From my book www.deeplyinloveagain.com/book. Download first chapter for free!
How Well Do You Know Your Man?
Does your partner understand you and what you need? Do you blame him for not understanding you? Do you understand your partner and what he/she needs? Think of your man. Do you know what your man values in life? What drives him in life? What’s important to him? Does he have any goals? Is he trying to achieve something? Ask him. Let him talk. It can take him a while to get started. Don’t offer your view or suggestions after his first sentence. Wait and listen. I know it can be very hard; I count up to ten to make it easier for me not to interrupt. What we often do is ask a question, and then when a man … Read More
Osho On Love
“Two persons, neither independent nor dependent but in a tremendous synchronicity, as if breathing for each other, one soul in two bodies—whenever that happens, love has happened.” Osho
What have you done to create heart-to-heart connection with your partner?
Do you dream of having a heart-to-heart connection with your partner? What have you done to make it happen? I often hear women blaming their partners, accusing them of unacceptable behaviour and a lack of consideration. Women don’t realise that by blaming they imply their own powerlessness in the relationship. Ironically, that is probably what men would say too. It is like painting the ceiling in your house without covering the floor first, then wondering why the floor gets covered in paint drops—then blaming the paint.