The growing edge of humanity is not in figuring out how to build new machines, it’s in learning how to connect and love no matter what.
Can we accomplish this big task by ourselves?
I don’t think so.
To truly transform our intimate relationships we need support of those who can show us our blind spots.
It’s impossible to change our relationships just by learning skills. We need to be able to deal with our emotions. Because if we get upset with our partner, we forget all the skills and become pure emotion, we jump into our primal brain and using skills requires us to be in our logical brain.
We all get disconnected, we all get upset. What we need to learn is how to calm ourselves down and then reconnect with our partners from the place of love and openness. That’s where miracles happen!
Want to transform your intimate relationship? Join us for a free 3-hour workshop for couples “Fire up your relationship to enjoy heart-to-heart connection and an exciting love life”.
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Tarisha Tourok
Couples Counselling Auckland