Beautiful, this is a classic mistake made by many. Without thinking, you automatically adjust the way you act to make yourself more accommodating to your man. You may stop doing the things you love, such as wearing a certain type of clothing, or you may stop seeing your friends as much. Gorgeous, you may think that changing who you are will have a positive effect on your relationship. Maybe you used to love nothing more than spending a Saturday afternoon shopping with your friends, and then all of a sudden you find you have become a latch-on to your soccer supporting other half! If this is you, you have been getting it all wrong! But don’t panic; I will soon make sure you get on the right track again and out your wonderful self first.

If you have noticed that you are changing who you are with the aim to please your man, remember that your partner fell in love with you for a beautiful person you are. Also bear in mind, that he is not, nor ever will be looking for a mirror image of himself. Independence, confidence and the strength to stick to your likes / dislikes are much more attractive than a self-reinvented man pleaser. If you are insecure in your relationship, then instead of trying to be something that you’re not, tell your man how you feel. Also, make sure that you once again start to do the things you love as this will greatly help with your self-esteem and confidence. Above all else; be yourself. That is always the best version of you and the version that your man fell for in the first place.

Tarisha Tourok