You can only change your relationship if you take full responsibility for it. Nothing else matters.
It is possible to create the relationship you’ve always wanted. This power is in your hands. Think about it; you can even create life! In ancient times a woman was revered as a goddess because she could create life. The role of men in procreation was unknown, and people believed women mysteriously created life inside their wombs. Women were revered as powerful and magical beings.
You are a powerful, magnetic, and sensual woman. This is the life you cannot avoid: you were born in a woman’s body. You were given the gift of creativity, and if you don’t use it, there is a cost to the self. Most of us create our lives unconsciously, without any purpose, and then wonder why our life isn’t the way we would ideally like it to be. If we don’t use our creative power to develop love, connections with other people, and a sense of well-being, we will feel stuck, tense, like an old dried apple that missed its chance to provide nourishment.
I know some women say their man needs to change first and do work on himself. But we are forgetting how powerful we are. It’s much easier for us to connect to love and to attract our men into love. By nature women are more about love and connection; men are more about purpose and achieving. We are here to bring more love into life. I invite you to recognise your power and to start using it to create what you desire.