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Who is Tarisha Tourok?
My dream is to see every woman, YOU, overflowing with joy and being deeply, totally and completely in love with yourself just the way you are.
Isn’t it time you CELEBRATE YOURSELF?!
My mission is to support women in creating magical intimate relationships with their men; relationships where women feel cherished, supported and adored; relationships where men feel appreciated, trusted and admired.
As a woman, you have so much love and depth to offer; you have wisdom and a unique world inside of you and you desire to experience profound intimate love. I understand and appreciate that.
I also understand that you need to step into all that you meant to be, to adore yourself just the way you are and to really get to know how to awaken the passion in your man, to transform your relationship to that of your dreams.
My passion is to empower you to:
My unique approach to relationship counselling is highly experiential and allows you to unlock your sensuality and feminine power. This process gives you the tools and wisdom you need to create a loving, passionate and flourishing relationship.
What Do I Do for You?
I offer relationship counseling in Auckland. I’m a relationship expert who understands the differences between men and women and how to transform your relationship into exciting and loving one.We were never taught how to relate to men to inspire them to love us.
Most of us didn’t have good role models who knew how to create love and harmony in the family. Most of the time, the driving desire of our parents to have a relationship wasn’t to experience deep intimate love, it was more for safety, financial security and raising children. We are at the forefront of the new kind of relationships.
Relationships based on love, passion and fulfillment. It can be overwhelming to try and figure how to create this new kind of relationship on your own. And maybe now you are the stage where you feel hopeless if you could ever make it work for you- if the love that you desire is possible.
That’s where I come in.
I teach you how to communicate with your partner so that he gives you the love and attention you desire. I teach you how to find your own power and live your life as a full expression of who you are. I support you in becoming an irresistible woman who adores herself and feels comfortable in her own body.
With my partner Glenn Starr.
My goal is to support you in creating a relationship that you always dreamed about; the kind of relationship that you (truthfully) brag about to your girlfriends and the kind of relationship where a thought of seeing your partner gives you the warm fuzzies. That is the kind of relationship I can help you to achieve.
Not Your Ordinary Relationship Coach
I’m not a typical relationship coach. I don’t give you advice on what to say to your man or how to look at him in a way you hope will make him love you more. Instead, I focus on who you are in the relationship rather than on what you do. We can change our behaviour, but it is difficult for anything to alter if we don’t change what we believe about ourselves and our lives.
Simply adjusting our behaviour can be superficial, manipulative, and hard to sustain. Some coaches tell you, for example, not to criticise your man and to appreciate him. How on earth are we supposed to do that if we feel that he doesn’t care, and he behaves in ways that hurt us? We need to firstly understand why our partner is doing what he is doing and find a way to step into a state of love and appreciation. Only then can we authentically appreciate him.
I don’t ask you to force yourself into behaving differently I offer you the blueprint for changing the way you are with your man so that you naturally start to relate to him in a different way. This is the foundation on which it will be easy for you to create a harmonious relationship. I also reveal those hidden secrets about men and the art of building a loving, intimate relationship, but the foundation is always the most important part.
I am very passionate about human relationships, and am continually learning, attending a lot of workshops and trainings, and most importantly applying what I learn in my own relationship. I teach what I practice in my own life and always bring my own personal experience for you to learn from.
I love seeing my clients starting to shine and enjoying the relationship they never thought was possible. And I love to have fun while I work! Be prepared to dance and laugh, and to feel joyful and inspired.
My Clients Are…
What I Do for Clients
Some of the specific steps of my programs are:
Are You Ready to Enjoy a Magical Loving Relationship?
If you’re ready to create a magical exciting relationship with your man, and if it sounds like I’m someone you’d like to work with, then I want to hear from you. Let’s connect and talk about what you’re up to and where you want to go, and how together, we can make that happen for you. Click here to apply for your complimentary Get the Love You Desire breakthrough session, where we’ll get on the phone and talk about where you’re at and where you want to go, and what you’ll need to do get there.
My Personal Story
I started my journey of self-discovery 9 years ago when I took a very sharp turn from my stable, secure life. At the time, I was working in a Chartered Accountancy firm. Each day, I would ask myself if this is what I was really born to do. I was disconnected from myself. I didn’t like myself. It was painful to be in a relationship but not feel connected and understood on a deep intimate level by my partner. Two years into my first marriage I started to wonder—where did the passion go? Where was my perfect lover, whom I dreamt of when I was seventeen—the one who would take me on an ecstatic love adventure? I was achieving great results in my career, yet I felt that routine took away my joy and passion. I was miserable. I didn’t feel loved, and I felt stuck in my relationship. It was terrifying to feel so completely alone while being with a man I loved.
What now? Where was I to go? What was I to do? I had a yearning to create a deep intimate relationship full of love and growth, but I didn’t know how.
Then, one day I heard a call to leave this life behind and go on a search for my own truth. Three weeks later, I resigned and found myself on a plane heading to India to discover a different way of life – full of love and connection with others. Since then, my life has changed dramatically, I discovered my inner power, felt blessed with being born as a woman and finally realised I am beautiful.
I’m blessed with the relationship I have now. And it took a lot of work to come to this place. With my partner, I feel loved, cherished, and understood. He makes an effort to make me happy, and he considers my desires and needs. It gives me a feeling that I am The One. I love to see the spark of desire and love in his eyes. And I know I have created this relationship for myself – it didn’t come to me by some miracle.
I now understand that I had to go through the pain of divorce and get over the denial of my own femininity to become a radiant woman and discover my magnetic sensual power. How else would I experience the magic of complete openness and sexual ecstasy with my beloved? The intensity of almost palpable passion and connection I now experience is indescribable. It is such a pleasure to feel erotically beautiful and enjoy deep intimacy in my life.
I feel deeply penetrated by love, and my heart melts. We grow together. We explore uncharted territories and become more and more complete in our own beings.
The authenticity of our communication is remarkable. I never dreamt of sharing exactly what I feel and want and being given the space to be my true self. My man is present with me and this makes me feel safe to open up. Of course we have arguments and some explosive emotions, but this helps our relationship grow. What’s amazing is that I don’t think of being somewhere else—it feels so deep and meaningful to be right here. And that’s what I want for you; that’s why I love doing my work. I don’t want you to go through the pain of failed relationships, an empty heart, and having children without a father.
My Experience and Achievements
I have studied under relationships experts all around the world, including such names as Tony Robbins, Cloe Madanes, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Claire Zammit, Alison Armstrong, Veeresh and many others.
I have helped lots of clients to transform their relationships and create the level of love that they have never experienced before.
And most importantly, I have created a loving exciting relationship for myself. A relationship where I feel supported, loved and inspired to live my highest potential.
I have a Bachelor of Commerce/Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Auckland, New Zealand. I’m a Certified BioDynamic Breathwork Practitioner, EFT (emotional freedom technique) practitioner, a Sacred Sexual Healer and a Certified Holistic Health Practitioner through the American Association of Drugless Practitioners. I have participated in numerous self-growth workshops all around the world, such as Awakening of Love, Tantra Breath, Tantric Meditations, Pulsation, Satori Self-Inquiry, Childhood De-Conditioning, Mystic Rose, Rebirthing, Co-counselling, etc.
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