Have you noticed how your partner sometimes looks at other women? Does it drive you nuts? Do you sometimes lose your self-confidence and feel there is something wrong with you: that you are not enough, not beautiful enough, not sexy enough? Do you blame him that he doesn’t love you enough?
The truth is – all men look at other women. All men sometimes fantasize about having sex with other women. All men sometimes undress a woman with their eyes.
Men think about sex a lot. It is their biological nature. Think about priests who decided to be celibate and remove sex from their lives. Think of all the sexual abuse it has caused. This proves that, however determined men are; they can’t fight their nature. They want sex; they think about sex; they fantasize about having sex with other women.
Most of the time it doesn’t have anything to do with you! It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you enough. It doesn’t mean that you are not sexy or beautiful to him. All it means is that he is a man. When he looks at others it has nothing to do with you, they turn his head, literally.
What do you do with this amusing feature of your beloved? Love him! Stay confident. Smile at him. You can even compliment that other woman. He’d love it! He’d think you are the best! Don’t go into a hurt ‘I’m not enough’ state that will cause you to withdraw your love from him or blame and argue with him. This is totally unnecessary! It’s like fighting with the weather when it’s raining for the whole week during your one week holiday on Fiji. Yes, it’s frustrating, but you can’t do anything about it, just accept and celebrate the warm water coming from the sky.