Tarisha Tourok relationship counselling Auckland – success story
I have a beautiful relationship with my husband – he is my best friend, my lover, my world, however, I was feeling out of sorts, that I was not giving him enough. I actually couldn’t put my finger on it – I adore him! Isn’t that enough? Not for me! It was bugging me!
At first I was dubious, if I would benefit from Tarisha’s work. Through the course of the workshop my thinking changed – my understanding became clearer. As it turned out my learning curve was going to be huge! I realised it was not what more I could give my husband it was actually all about ME! It was rather a ‘WOW’ time, one of realisation – I couldn’t change what I needed to in my relationship until I changed something very simple within me. The work we did really helped me to become clear on my direction and what and how I need to change.
It all boiled down to me not feeling feminine – not being in touch with my ‘girlyness’ with my romantic side! How can I expect to romance him if I can’t romance myself. This was what I learned – I’m not going to say how it dawned on me (attend the course!!) it’s different for everyone.
All I can say is without Tarisha’s passion, her relationship counselling skills and understanding of our role, as females, in our relationships, our belief systems that affect the way we relate to our hubbies and partners – well I wouldn’t have made the choice to make a change, to connect to my feminine and flirty self! In fact I wouldn‘t have known what was missing for me – I am choosing to become my idea of feminine, a definition I am still fine tuning! The impact with us? Romance is creeping into our lives – and well the rest is personal .
Emma